PLEASE OBEY

I remember the night I finally broke the relationship, I cried. I cried so much that I did not want to stop, my eyes were shot red and I almost got an headache. I was bitter, I asked why it couldn't be him, I was angry, I was sorry I had hurt him.
I asked God to let it be him but I just could not disobey because I already heard the voice warning me about remaining in the relationship; but I still loved him (I thought).

But one day as I thought about him God said something that I would never forget: If you are with him, you would never find your purpose, you would not discover me nor your place in my kingdom, you would be limited and just live ordinarily.

There are some company we keep in life that will limit our destiny.
It is not that they intentionally want to limit us, but our incompatibility in terms of destiny with them will make us unable to find ourselves when we are with them. Now, when God chooses, He would try to separate us from them to help us discover ourselves in Him, but this is it; God would never force you to leave them but he would consistently warn you of the danger ahead. Now, this is not to say that they are unprofitable, it is just that we are incompatible in terms of destiny.

When God told me to cut off the relationship, I felt bad but then, I did.
I told him I was no longer interested but I still clinged to him for two years, oh yeah, two years after God told me to break up. I was bitter, I could not just imagine a day without speaking with him, and so I held on even after
breaking up and for those years that i was still attached to him, I remained stagnant spiritually. Yeah, for two years no growth; falling and rising, battling with sins, it was terrible and so I took the bold step to finally break it, but it was not easy. I was broken for days but  unknown to me, that started my healing process. I started meeting people who love God and also encouraged me to love him too, I started growing, I discovered purpose, my eyes began to open, my relationship with God began to take root and I became more stable spiritually, i began to understand why I had to leave that relationship, I discovered why God emphasized that separation before my liberation.

See, sincerely, it is not easy. I know that feeling of being insecure without him or her. I can totally relate with it, I understand your fears and pain, I have been there.

Now, let's consider this: in a game of chess, there are different players, we have the king, queen, Knight, pawns, etc. If one loses the pawns, Knight, or even the Queen; the game can still continue if the King is intact. However, if all the pawns are intact with other officials and the king is lost, the game automatically becomes over.

Here, God is the king while any other human would be mere pawns.
That is the same way it is, you can't afford to lose God because of a man, you can't afford to lose your destiny and purpose because of your feelings. Those feelings will fade if God is not involved and then you would be left empty and dry. If God is telling you to leave that person, please obey, He is preparing someone greater for you.

Jeremiah 29:11  For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

God is faithful, if He is telling you to let go, it is because he has something golden to offer. You have that feeling that you may never meet someone better, no, who says so. His plans are definitely of good. Please obey.